Sex; is there a meaning to it?

Posted: July 2, 2015 in Erotica
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That is a very open question, and one that is directed to fellow bloggers here, and the world at large.

What does sex and intimacy mean to you, personally? What role does your sex life -or lack of it- play in your day to day interactions with the world?

To me, it is a means of communication, first of all. A way of expressing myself, to extrapolate my inner feelings for someone into something tangible, real, visible, sensual, and of course, pleasurable. To me, making love to another human being goes well beyond the mere act of inserting part of me into part of my partner. I make love with my whole body, and more importantly, with my whole mind. Your partner must know by your actions that you care about them, that you want to be doing what you are doing, rather than just going through the motions. The minds must connect also, not only the bodies.

This extrapolation of one’s inner self must be mutual, of course, for it to be fulfilling. Sexual communication works two ways. If it’s only one way, someone’s going to end up being hurt.

Sex is what defines a couple, and most certainly what keeps a couple together. There are exceptions to this hard and fast assertion, of course, because human beings are varied and multi-layered, and some people just don’t do sex, and that’s just fine. As long as both members of the couple feel that way, they can live long and prosperous lives together. But good sex is most definitely the gel that glues people together, and keeps them that way. At the end of the day, if you’re getting the best at home, why mess around elsewhere?

Feel free to leave your comments in relation to this.

Express yourselves.

  1. What sex means to me completely depends on who and why I am doing it. I agree that when it is with your life partner, it is the purest expression of your connection. You are able to show the love, commitment, desire, passion and connection that the two of you share. The mind is definitely actively involved in this kind of exchange. However, when you are engaged with a partner that you don’t have a life or love commitment to, it’s all about the carnal pleasure. I don’t have to have a deep connection to REALLY enjoy fucking someone. An attraction, yes, more than that, no.

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